July 29, 2010

Installing a husband

I would like to share this story wif u all. I got this from forwarded email, xigt from sape. Tp rasanye dah ramai yg penah baca cite ni. Nice one! Interesting idea. And byk pengajaran tuk semua pasangan, both ladies and gentlemen. Mari membaca!

Installing a husband

Last  year, I upgraded from  Boyfriend  5.0  to  Husband  1.0  and noticed a distinct slow down in overall system performance, particularly in the flower and jewelry applications, which operated  flawlessly under  Boyfriend  5.0.
In  addition,  Husband  1.0  uninstalled many other valuable programs, such  as
Romance  9.5  and   Personal  Attention 6.5,  and then installed undesirable programs such  as
NBA  5.0, NFL  3.0  and Golf Clubs  4.1.
Conversation  8.0  no longer runs, and  HouseCleaning  2.6  simply  crashes the system.
Please note  that I have tried running  Nagging  5.3 to fix these  problems, but to no avail.
What can I  do?

Baca artikel ini sepenuhnya untuk tahu apa jawapannya...

First, keep in mind,
Boyfriend  5.0 is an  Entertainment Package, while Husband  1.0 is an  operating system.
Please enter  command:  ithoughtyoulovedme.HTML,  try to download  Tears  6.2,  and do not forget to install the  Guilt  3.0 update.
If those  applications work as designed,  Husband  1.0 should then  automatically run the applications  Jewelry  2.0  and  Flowers  3.5.
However,  remember, overuse of the above application can cause Husband  1.0  to default to Grumpy  Silence 2.5,  Happy  Hour 7.0, or  Beer  6.1.
Please note  that  Beer  6.1 is a very bad  program that will download the  Snoring Loudly Beta.
Whatever  you do,  DO NOT under any  circumstances install  Mother-In-Law 1.0 (it runs a  virus in the background that will eventually seize control of all your  system resources.)
In  addition, please do not attempt to reinstall the Boyfriend  5.0 program. This is an unsupported application and will crash Husband 1.0.
In  summary,  Husband  1.0  is a great program, but it does have limited memory and cannot learn new  applications quickly. You might consider buying additional software to  improve memory and performance. We  recommend Cooking  3.0  and  Hot Lingerie  7.7.
Good  Luck!
     -Tech Support

Renung2kan dan selamat beramal! 


Today is 29July2010. The countdown shall begin. Because i am going home next week on 6August2010. In 8 days! Seriously i cant wait any longer.

July 25, 2010

i do miss ...

I miss her so much! My beloved mama

I miss them too! My family

 Also the two cutie babies! My anak sedara

And i do miss all my families and frens...

b2b blogwalking

Dah lama xmenjengah blogs b2b (brides to be). Sepanjang pagi ni i blogwalking all their sweet & nice blogs. Everyone is bz preparing for their big day. Although i dun have the chance to be one of them, but i am so happy reading their stories. (sedih mengenangkan nasib diri ini..) I like wedding stuff. I like to read the stories behind the big event. Happy. Interesting. Exciting. Satisfaction. How i wish i could be one of them. Btw, to those yg merancang nak kawen mid of 2011, i heard that most of the hall in klang valley is running out of availibility. Some of them are fully booked until august 2011. Sebenarnye mengikut xprien org yg da kawen, you have to book the dewan a year b4 your wedding. Tempoh yg paling selamat. Awalnye! But its true ok. Some of the b2b bloggers tgh poning2 mencari dewan tuk their wedding on june - august 2011.  Ade dewan dah fully booked sampai Dec 2011. Wow!! To those yg plan nak wat majlis kat dewan tu, plis mind that ok!  Yang mcm malas nk pk lg tu, rasanya dah patut pk secara serious. That shows how much important to have an earlier plan kan. Some people xphm n xkesah sgt benda2 ni esp guys. Ada sesetengah laki malas sket nk pk pasal kawen n weding prep. Semuanya xkesah.. awal lg.. rilex dulu.. xyah pening2 pk..  xyah kalut2 and mcm2 lagi common alasan yg slalu diberi. My brother was one of them. Everything diserahkan kat my mom. Haih.. But for ladies, a wedding is one of the most important thing happen in life. Everyone nak yg terbaik kan. To the ladies yg dpt partner yg sama2 bersemangat n xcited for a wedding, they are so lucky. My classmate, andy is so lucky to have a partner yang do all the preps of their coming wed this august, since andy is now working far away. Im so jealous of her. Tahniah andy! Owh, ade my fwens yg tanye nape da lama xde entry bout wedding stuff kt sini. Jawapannya, i malas nk survey. and not in the mood. Tunggu mood dtg dulu. Huhu. Btw, sebenarnya i dlm process nak separatekan  the wedding stuff to another diff blog. In progress. It would be a private blog, only for few invited pple je. Nway, to all the b2b, all the best in preparing the best for your big day. May God bless you. To those yg dah selamat menjadi wifey to your beloved hubby, congratulation to all of you.

July 19, 2010

QC on gamma camera

This is one of my daily main job. Do qc on gamma camera. There are two gamma cameras in our department placed in two different room.  Each room is monitor by one physicist. It took about 30mins to complete one cycle of qc. Mesin gamma camera ni digunakan dlm nuclear medical imaging (a.k.a nuclear medicine) to view and analyze imej tubuh badan manusia.

gamma camera (under my monitoring)

 lab technologist is doing a scanning process

Gamma camera principle
A gamma camera consists of one or more flat crystal planes (or detectors) optically coupled to an array of photomultiplier tubes, the assembly is known as a "head", mounted on a gantry. The gantry is connected to a computer system that both controls the operation of the camera as well as acquisition and storage of acquired images. The system accumulates events, or counts, of gamma photons that are absorbed by the crystal in the camera.

The crystal scintillates in response to incident gamma radiation. When a gamma photon leaves the patient (who has been injected with a radioactive pharmaceutical), it knocks an electron loose from an iodine atom in the crystal, and a faint flash of light is produced when the dislocated electron again finds a minimal energy state. The initial phenomenon of the excited electron is similar to the photoelectric effect and (particularly with gamma rays) the Compton effect. After the flash of light is produced, it is detected. Photomultiplier tubes (PMTs) behind the crystal detect the fluorescent flashes (events) and a computer sums the counts. The computer reconstructs and displays a two dimensional image of the relative spatial count density on a monitor. This reconstructed image reflects the distribution and relative concentration of radioactive tracer elements present in the organs and tissues imaged.
~~ Ringkas je ni. Kalo xphm tu buat2 phm jela. Tp rasanya principle ni basic je kot, fizik spm pun ade sentuh sket2 kan..
Source: Wikipedia

July 17, 2010

My first herbaline facial

Arini berjaya menghadirkan diri ke appoinment yg telah ditetapkan oleh diriku sendiri. Eleven am at herbaline spa doing a facial. It was my first time berfacial at herbaline. Also my first time mencuba product ni to my skin. The service was good. Sungguh rilex and selesa ditambah urutan di tgn n dada. Selesanya sampai terlelap jap. Erk except for dat blackhead n whitehead removing process. Ouch! Saket bangat ok! I didnt buy any of their product. Awal2 mmg ade plan nak beli, tp tetibe cm xmo lg. So cancel dulu niat tu. Owh btw compared facial kt herbaline to dermalogica, i would prefer dermalogica kot buat masa ni. Tp baru skali try kt herbaline ni kan. Lom nmpk any changes lg. Actually tgh dok consider nak tuko facial product baru. Currently i mix&match few products. Skang nak try either Dermalogica or Herbaline or SKII or Clarins or Mustika Ratu. Cik Hidayah, any comment or suggestion? SKII essence tu ok x? Ko penah try Clarins x?

July 14, 2010

A new look

Tada!!! After a year wif a pinkish layout, i decided to give some refreshment to my diary. Lavender.. i love the colour. Errr.. Wif pictures of mine on top? Uh.. self obses ke hapa??!! Haha. This is wat hepen when u had nothing to do. Mengisi masa lapang. Layan jela ye.

July 11, 2010

Omg! my skin! I need a facial!

I really need to get pampering myself. So many things stressed me out these few weeks. So many things that pun me into dizzy world. Sgt memerlukan ketenangan sambil merehatkan fikiran dan badan. Spa is the right place kan. Im thinking of having a facial treatment. Then body massage plak. Kat kuching ni xbyk spa.  Mungkin sbb  most ladies here oredi have good skin. Its true ok! I am so jealous of them. The main factor is pple here mmg since kecik lagi dah biasa mkn makanan sihat. Ulam-ulaman adalah hidangan wajib for almost every meals. Plus they have beras bukit which has very less calories compared to beras biasa.  Faktor pemakanan adalah sgt mempengaruhi kesihatan kulit. Mind that! Btw, kalo nak cari salon rambut mmg sgt byk n bersepah2 cos sini ramai org free hair. I would say there is only one person wearing scarf out of 50. After did some survey, there are three places here that open my eyes. Herbaline, Dermalogica and Mustika Ratu. I duno how well the products can suit my skin. I have a combination of dry and oily skin. From my survey tru few forums of herbaline spa, they do not have specific treatment for different type of skins which means they used the same product and treatment for all type of skin. Yeke? Should i proceed wif this? Or mustika ratu? I did try dermalogica before. Dat one ok kot. But i would  prefer products wif herbs based. Less chemicals. Actually dah call the herbaline spa. Maybe nexwik ill try on a normal facial dulu kot. Kena try few times then baru bleh nmpk hasilnya and bagi review n comment.

i quoted this from one beauty website. cool hah!.. for pple yg mmg dianugerahkan rupa n kulit yg cantik, they are so lucky. hanya perlu maintainkan je. but for those who are not so lucky like me yg rupa  n kulit kurang cantik, pastuh dok maleh2 plak. haish.. ok i dun wan to be lazy no more. get up!


When a lady dates a married man

This is a serious issue esp when a young lady dates a married man. I duno y this could happened. While i  was reading few articles just now, i saw this one topic been discussed in a forum. I did copied the article to share wif the readers, but im so sori that i oredi forgot the url. To the ladies out there, plis do read this and plis do avoid yourself being one of them.

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There are no positive reasons for dating a married man. Even the good reasons don't stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas' clothing. If you find yourself on the brink of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap:

1. He won't commit to a future with you.
A man who is in a very unhappy or unsatisfying marriage can feel swept away by how wonderful you make him feel. He may even blurt out, "I've never felt this way before and I can see spending the rest of my life with you." This may sound like a commitment to a future with you. It's not. Don't confuse his loving the way you make him feel with his loving you and making a commitment to you.

2. Cheating on his wife tells you how he deals with any situation he doesn't like.
You are evidence of his inability to avoid dealing with unpleasant situations head on. This means that he's likely to resort to some devious behavior with you if the two of you encounter relationship problems.

3. Hiding is exhausting.
Having to keep your relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship. Walking together freely and radiantly through the world can fill you with the glow of being with someone who is proud to be with you.

4. He's got his cake and is eating it, too.
He has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona and he has an illegitimate one with you to make up for what he's missing in his marriage. As appreciative as he sounds, many women who are involved with married men come to resent his having the best of both worlds, when she has the least.

5. Can you love someone who is so disrespectful of his wife?
The existence of your relationship with a married man tells you how little he respects his wife by lying to her instead of being a man and telling her that he wants out.

6. Lose his respect and it's over.
Even though he's the one who pursued you. Even though he's the one that made it difficult to say "No." And even though he tells you how wonderful you are. At some level, he's going to have trouble respecting you for settling for such a flawed relationship. Like the Groucho Marx joke, "He may not want to be in a relationship that would have him as a partner."

7. You're not a home wrecker, just an accomplice.
Like it or not, you are a willing participant in a man violating his vows and betraying the trust of his wife -- not to mention grossly disappointing his children and making it difficult for them to see him as a role model.

8. You're kidding yourself.
Despite his reassuring you how much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship with his wife in an above-board and respectful way -- and not beginning a legitimate relationship with you -- are actions that speak louder than words.

9. Beware the guilt boomerang.
Many men (and women) have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their deceitful actions. Human nature finds it easier to blame than to accept shame. If he is caught by his wife or conscience, don't be surprised if he tries to blame you and get you to take the fall.

10. Time is too precious to waste.
Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older? Because it's convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married man can go on for a long time -- and before you know it, eat up the precious time you might have had in a healthy relationship with a chance of flourishing. When people who have been involved with married men finally move on, they often regret having wasted the time in a dead-end affair.
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When you as a woman allow yourself to become a married man's entertainment, a pleasant distraction from his "real" life, you are participating in and contributing to an immoral and potentially hurtful scenario. You are also taking the easy route and if you cared about the wife's feelings, you would not allow yourself to get involved with these men. How would you feel if you were his wife. Or are you so heartless that you don't care. How would you feel knowing your father cheated on your mother? How would you feel knowing that your sister's husband is sleeping with someone else? I hope this puts things into perspective.

July 08, 2010


Been tag by pengantin baru, puan mimie =) Sudah lama tak respon all the tagged. Here i go..

Starting time : 9.29pm
Name : some pple called me lieza, some called me dzu, some called me dzulie, some called me dikju/kakju
Sisters : 3
Brothers : 1
Shoe size : 6
Height : errr..tak hengat la
Where do you live : CatsCity

Have you ever been on a plane : yup
Swam in the ocean : sadly..i cant swim lorrr
Fallen asleep at school : owez!
Broken someone's heart : hm..ade kot
Fell off your chair : once (yg i igt la..)
Sat by the phone all night waiting for someone to call : owez!
Saved e-mails : yup
What is your room like : uh bilik sewa ni sempit bangat!
What’s right beside you: women's weekly
What is the last thing you ate : nasik berlaukkan serunding n sardin
Chicken pox : yup
Sore throat : yup
Stitches : yup
Broken nose : yup

Do you...
Believe in love at first sight : i do. dari mata turun ke hati =p

Who was/were...
The last person you danced with : saya tidak pandai menari!
Last made you smile : she was the lady i sketched wearing my baju design (cett mcm gempak je kan.padahal sama je cm design baju len.haha)
You last yelled at : tak hengat. very rare la cos im not dat type.

Today did you...
Talk to someone you like : -
Kissed anyone : nak kiss sape dok sowang2 ni??!
Get sick : yup.senggugut yg amat!
Talk to an ex : nope.sgt tidak perlu kot
Miss someone : my family n my frens

Who do you really hate: Those who dun respect others belonging
Do you like your hand-writing : i do. hey its my art ok! muahaha
Are your toe nails painted : never done before. tp mcm nak try je..

Whose bed other than yours would you rather sleep in : none
What color shirt are you wearing now : orange
Are you a friendly person : i dun think i am friendly. sy pemalu ;p but i think im nice to pple

Do you have any pets : nope. tp zaman kanak2 dulu bela ikan karin (ikan laga). best wooo
Do you sleep with the TV on: sometimes
What are you doing right now : survey design baju kebaya n kurung yg menarik.sok mau g tempah baju!
Can you handle the truth : yup. insyaAllah
Are you closer to your mother or father : my beloved mama

Do you eat healthy : sedang berusaha.caiyok!
Do you still have pictures of you & your ex : nope.i never simpan anything related to my ex
If you're having a bad day, who are you most likely to go to : myself. nangis bawah bantal =(

Are you loud or quiet most of the time : quiet
Are you confident : depends

5 things I was doing 10 years ago:
1.i was a great kaki wayang few years back
2.used to be a bad spender. but now dah pandai control shopping =p
3.slalu paksa mama dtg visit masa kat asrama dulu. poor she kan..
4.sgt rajin join stadi group.kunun2 la
5. -

5 things I would do if I were a billionaire:
1.have my dream car and a comfort n nice house wif good furnishing
2.start my own business
3.bring my family esp my parents for a great vacation
4.bual amal.. derma and sedekah to org2 yg memerlukan

5 of my bad habits:
1.sometimes too serious
2.easy to forgive, bt not easy to forget
3.sometimes a bit pushy
5.terlalu mjaga ati org n abaikan perasaan sendri

5 places I've lived/living:
1.a place i was born n grew up in kangar
2.a school in jitra
3.a college in langkawi mom's rent house in shah alam
5.currently in kuching

5 people I tag: zam, kaksuzie, ied, fanadz, alia

July 07, 2010

Nuklear Dalam Bidang Kesihatan dan Perubatan

Dalam bidang kesihatan dan perubatan, teknik-teknik berkaitan nuklear banyak digunakan dengan berkesan dan meluas. Antaranya :

Radiologi Diagnosis
Teknik mengimbas pesakit bagi mengdiagnosis penyakit menggunakan x-ray, dan juga teknik berdasarkan nuklear seperti resonan magnet nuklear (nuclear magnetic resonance, NMR).

Perubatan Nuklear
Dalam diagnosis, bahan radioaktif berhayat pendek biasanya dimasukkan bersama-sama bahan pembawa ke dalam tubuh pesakit. Sinar gamma yang dihasilkan bahan radioaktif dapat dikesan di organ badan yang dikaji. Untuk rawatan penyakit, bahan radioaktif yang lebih aktif akan digunakan, seperti Iodin-131 untuk merawat penyakit tiroid (hypertyroidsm).

Teknik ini digunakan untuk merawat kanser, dengan membunuh sel-sel kanser. Sinaran x-ray, sinar gamma atau elektron bertenaga tinggi ditujukan ke tisu bermasalah (kanser), dan kemudian membunuh sel-sel bermasalah tisu tersebut.

Penghasilan Radionuklid
Penghasilan radionuklid buatan yang diperlukan dalam bidang perubatan dan industri juga adalah berkaitan dengan penggunaan teknik nuklear.

Tarikh pengisytiharan

Setelah diperkenankan oleh duli yang maha mulia diriku sendiri, dengan ini adalah diisytiharkan bahawa tarikh saya akan pulang ke shah alam jatuh pada 6 Ogos 2010 sehingga 15 Ogos 2010. Sementara itu, tarikh saya akan pulang beraya adalah jatuh pada 7 September 2010 sehingga 19 September 2010. Sekian harap maklum.

*** i miss my family so much! one month to go!

He wants to get married but... (ver.2)

Another article from Islam QA. Mari berkongsi ilmu dan info. Renung2kan dan selamat beramal =)

He wants to get married but his mother is objecting to that because he is young

Praise be to Allaah.


It is permissible for a man to get married without his parents’ agreement, unlike a woman, for whose marriage to be valid it is essential that her wali (guardian) agrees. But it is part of honouring one’s parents and treating them kindly to ask for their permission and seek their approval, because that is more likely to keep relationships with them harmonious.


You should explain to your mother how great your need for marriage is, and try to convince her and earn her approval. If she responds, then praise be to Allaah, but if she persists in her attitude, then there is no sin on you if you get married to the girl you want, if she is righteous and religiously-committed.

It is a common mistake for parents to refuse to let their children get married on the basis of studies or their being too young; they do not understand the problems suffered by young men at a time when temptation is widespread. Their refusal may lead to their children going astray and following a path of evil. Hence we advise fathers and mothers to help their sons and daughters to get married, and to make it easy and encourage them to do that, in obedience to the words of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “O young men, whoever among you can afford to get married, let him do so, and whoever cannot afford it, let him fast, for that will reduce his sexual energy.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5065) and Muslim (1400).

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked about someone who wanted to get married but his parents refused. He replied:

With regard to this issue, we must offer two pieces of advice. Firstly, we advise your father who insisted on not allowing you to marry this woman whom you describe as being of good character and religiously committed. What he must do is allow you to marry her, unless he has a legitimate shar’i reason which he knows and can explain to you so as to put your mind at rest. He should weigh up this matter himself and imagine if his father had prevented him from marrying a woman whose religious commitment and character he liked, would he not regard that as a disgrace and restriction of his freedom? If he would not like his father to do that to him, then how can he agree to do that to his son? The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No one of you truly believes until he likes for his brother what he likes for himself.”

It is not permissible for your father to prevent you from getting married to this woman with no legitimate shar’i reason. If there is a legitimate shar’i reason, then let him explain it to you so that you will understand.

And our advice to you is: if you can find another woman instead of this woman, and please your father and maintain a harmonious relationship with the family, then do so.

But if you cannot do that because your heart is attached to her, and you are afraid that if you propose to another woman that your father will prevent you from marrying her too – because some people may feel jealous even towards their children and prevent them from doing what they want – then I say: if you are afraid of that and you cannot do without this woman to whom your heart is attached, then there is no sin on you if you marry her, even if your parents object. Perhaps after you get married he will accept what has happened and what is in his heart will go away. We ask Allaah to decree for you that which is best for you.

End quote from Fataawa Islamiyyah (4/193)

And Allaah knows best.

Source: Islam QA

July 04, 2010

Jamu - Mustika Ratu

Jamu = Herbs merupakan obat tradisonal yang dapat digunakan sabagai sarana perawatan kesehatan, memperkuat daya tahan tubuh dan menanggulangi berbagai macam penyakit, sudah berakar kuat dalam kehidupan masyarakat Indonesia.

Dr. BRA Mooryati Soedibyo yang dinobatkan sebagai empu jamu pada tahun 2008, dibesarkan dalam keraton Surakarta P.Hadiningrat terbiasa menjalani perawatan kesehatan dan kecantikan dengan ramuan bahan-bahan alami. Pengalaman beliau tersebut kini dimasyarakatkan melalui produk-produk Mustika Ratu.

Produk Mustika Ratu dibuat dari bahan alami pilihan di proses secara modern dan higienis. Mustika Ratu telah mendapatkan sertifikat ISO 9002 dan ISO 14001 sejak tahun 1996 serta GMP (Good Manufacturing Product) sejak tahun 2004. Sehingga memberikan keyakinan kepada konsumen atas kualitas produk yang ramah lingkungan.

Ade sape2 penah try product Mustika Ratu tak? Nak dijadikan cite, semlm kuar jap beli brg2 sket. Pastu lalu depan spa mustika ratu. Then tros masuk. Saje je tgk2 product and service yg ade.  Actually dah lama plan nak mkn jamu. Hm beside mkn supplement vitamin, y not add on ngan jamu kan. Org indonesia dari kocik lagi dah stat mkn jamu, dat y la kulit derg sgtlah cantik and gebu skali. So today i did some study ttg productmustika ratu. Antara product jamu yg menarik and sesuai for myself adalah:
Kaplet Susut Perut - 30 kaplet
Mengecilkan dan mengencangkan perut. Diminum secara teratur tiap pagi 1 kaplet dan malam 1 kaplet. Untuk pencegahan diminum secara teratur tiap malam 1 kaplet. (saya mahu mengempiskan perut! no more buncit plis, mesti flat! skang dah stat diet baru. no more food after 8pm except buah je. telah berjaya bertahan selama 2minggu. caiyok!) 
Kaplet Ayu Singset - 30 kaplet
Melancarkan peredaran darah, mengencangkan kulit wajah dan membuat wajah bersih dan segar bersinar. Diminum 3 x 1 kaplet sehari.  
Perawatan Wanita - 28 kaplet
Merupakan paket perawatan bagi wanita yang terdiri dari 4 jenis. Diminum secara teratur akan membantu memelihara kesehatan kulit dan menyegarkan badan agar tampak muda.
Actually byk product jamu derg ni. Testimonial from the users pun very good la. Kalo tak, xdela product ni established and stil maintain smpai skang kan. Price pun ok je, affordable.. Kalo berminat nak tau lg, sila refer di sini ye. I think I'll get either two of them as my additional supplement. Dah umo 26 thn br  terasa kepentingan mkn jamu =p Better la kan, dr kebanyakan org yg after bersalin br pk nak mkn jamu. Huhu. Will grab them later!

Learning process

Ok dis is wat i am working for now. Mengisi masa lapang dengan mengenali dunia gamers. Reading about the related stuff. The equipments. The gadgets. Types of games. Actually i am not really into game. I am not a gamer of course. I do not have xbox nor wii nor psp nor any type of ps. Never thought of having one pun. So why on earth i spent my time to get to know all those things. I dunno. Mungkin perasaan untuk lebih memahami dunia and kehidupan seorang gamer kot. Learning process never end kan..

Perlukah ade both xbox and ps3? Perlukah monitor sebeso itu? Masih dlm proses mendalami and memahami..
 Sori i put this pic tanpa permisi the owner. jgn mara ye =p

July 03, 2010

Wedding Exhibition

To those who are getting married, do make a visit. One of a good source to get some idea for your big day.

Pameran Pengantin 2010

Date: 2nd - 4th July 2010
Venue: Hall 2 & 3, MVEC Midvalley
Admission: FREE for all public visitors

Taktaula bile agaknya  sy akan berpeluang tuk ke event camni. Sgt teringin ok! Of course i dun want to go on my own la. It must be a visit wif my hubby-to-be la kan. But i dun have one yet. Uh... so sad.. really hope i can settle down asap. May God bless us. Amin.

July 02, 2010

He wants to get married but...

I read this issue in one particular islamic website. I think this is a good sharing article tuk renungan and penghayatan bersama (esp to those yang single mingle like me!)

He wants to get married but his parents want him to delay that


What do you think a one should do who have high sexual desires who doesnt go out nor does anything to satisfy it. It is very distracting, constant thoughts in the head, I do want to get married but parents have high expectations, to become somebody first then think about settling.


Praise be to Allaah.
It is narrated in al-Bukhaari (5065) and Muslim (3384) that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to us: “O young men, whoever among you can afford to get married, let him do so, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and preserving chastity. Whoever cannot afford it, let him fast, for that will be a shield for him” – i.e., it will reduce and weaken his desire.

Based on this, if a person can afford to get married then he should hasten to do so, because of the many benefits that this brings, as mentioned by the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), namely it helps him to lower his gaze and protect his chastity, increases the numbers of the ummah and offers protection against temptation and mischief.

Ibn Mas’ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “If I only had ten days left to live and I knew that I was going to die on the last of them, and I could afford to get married, I would get married, for fear of fitnah (temptation).”

Imam Ahmad (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “Celibacy has nothing to do with Islam at all.”

If you fear hardship for yourself and that you may and fall into sin, then in that case it is obligatory for you to get married. In this case parents are advised to arrange their son’s marriage and not to stand in the way of his remaining chaste and protecting himself from temptation.

Ibn Qudaamah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “With regard to marriage, people fall into three categories. Some of them fear that they may fall into sin if they do not get married, in which case it is obligatory to marry, according to the view of most of the fuqaha’, because this will make a person remain chaste and protect him from committing haraam actions; the only way to do is to get married.”

Al-Mughni, 9/341.

You have to deal gently and kindly with your parents and try to convince them of your need to get married, and tell them that this will never conflict with what they want for you in the future. You can also seek the help of wise people among your relatives to convince your parents.

The questioner is to be commended for not going out to places of fitnah (temptation) and not fulfilling his desires by haraam means. We ask Allaah to make you steadfast and to help you to find a good wife who will be a delight to you and your parents, for He is Ever-near and Responsive.

Source: Islam Q&A