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November 21, 2010

Love: Commitment vs Sacrifice

Some said love needs commitment. Some said love needs sacrifice. Some said love needs both. So what u said? I said both - commitment & sacrifice must come bersama2. Or else, we are type yg jual ikan selfishness, semua asek die je btol n die je nak menang. Tak ke haru biru camtu? Haish...

So why i choose kedua2nya? Because i defined love is wanting happiness and everything that is good tuk insan tersayang. Love is not wanting someone, it's wanting what is best for them. I don't care if  my partner is with someone else, as long as dia hepi, bahagia n selesa. Takkanla nak suh die stick wif me, sedangkan die pura2 hepi kot. Atau  dalam tekanan bcinta ngan paksarela (eh, ade ke paksarela bcinta? mmg ade zaman skang ni..) It hurts more kan. So, knowing that he is happy is all I need. It's about sacrifice. What about a commitment plak? Cane nk define ek? Hm, i choose this phrase to explain what my heart said.. 'Love recognizes others and their needs... their needs to be noticed, to be accepted, appreciated, to be loved, and to know that they matter' (read this sumwhere tp xigt katne).

*** Tepuk dada tanya selera. Renung-renungkan n selamat beramal. Semoga berbahagia selalu. Ameen...

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