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June 04, 2015

e.d.a.y

So... this is my first entry bout my single to married life. The engagement. Actually we didnt plan to get engaged pun. Our first plan was his family come to visit my family and discuss bout us. No need for a majlis n not to bring any hantaran kecuali cincin tanda. We decided not to get engaged since both of us dah pernah engaged. Me with my ex, and him wif his ex. So this time we decided xpayah bertunang lg, terus buat perjumpaan family and discuss the date. But few weeks before the day, my MIL (masa tu blom jd ibu mertuaku..) said they wanted to bring the hantaran for me, katanyer rasa xbest plak pegi xbawak ape2. So ape lagi kan.. Terus la i pegi cari barang hantaran n hiasan dulang hantaran. Hantaran simple je for the engagement. And yes, of course all the hantaran were DIY by myself :) Alhamdulillah semuanya berjalan lancar. It was a close event among families only. Lebih kurang mcm majlis mkn2 family je. No pelamin, no khemah, no lacey dress, no baju melayu. Tp acara sarung cincin antara bakal mak mertua n bakal menantu harusla ada kan ;p Btw, walopun sekadar majlis yg simple, but sgt bermakna for both of us. Perjalanan majlis yang smooth n tenang, dan penerimaan n connection both side of families, it makes me feel good n hepi. 

To all my frens, i am truly sori for not telling n invite u guys for the engagement. As i told earlier, it was a closed family event. Plus i think i used to heard n read this few times - Tak perlu hebohkan ttg merisik or bertunang sbb itu belum sah, tp haruslah menghebahkan ttg pernikahan utk mngelak fitnah dan mendapat doa berkat drpd org yang mengetahui ttgnya. Hopefully semua faham n would forgive me for not telling u earlier.. 

Alhamdulillah.. Selesai first part, n we were one step closer.. 

*** gambar bertunang???? tgh pk nk upload ke tak kt sini.. belum penah upload gambar bertunang kt mane2 lg. yes no yes no yes no yes no yes no yes no yes no yes no yes no yes no yes no yes no... alamak, undecided la... camno nih??!!

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